Every now and then, an email lands in my inbox that reminds me exactly why we do what we do. And in this moment — when political hostility toward LGBTQ+ youth and families is mounting, and inclusive spaces are being questioned, defunded, or erased entirely — this one from Camp Ten Oaks stopped me in my tracks.
Subject line? Nothing flashy. Just an honest, heartfelt thank you.
Here’s the opening:
*Dear Pamela,
I just wanted to take a few minutes to say thank you! Thank you for the years of support, thank you for the kind words, thank you for the love, and thank you for the care you have given to Ten Oaks.*
No ask. No slick design. Just deep, personal gratitude — the kind that doesn’t feel automated or generalized. It’s one voice speaking to another, with purpose and love. And in our increasingly automated world, that kind of message stands out.
Camp Ten Oaks — an organization rooted in the belief that all youth deserve safe spaces to be their authentic selves — has grown from serving just 22 campers in 2005 to now supporting over 150 campers annually, not to mention hosting over 25 community events, launching new programs, and supporting trans youth and their families through targeted programs like Families in Transition and Leaf Links.
All of this, they say, is because of the kindness of their community. And you can feel it.
“The tiny acorn of hope that was planted 20 years ago has grown into a truly mighty oaks!”
That metaphor? It sticks. It paints a picture. And it reminds us that movements — especially those supporting marginalized youth — often start with just one bold, caring idea.
So why highlight this email now?
Because expressing gratitude isn’t just a good practice — it’s a form of resistance. In a time when queer and trans youth are facing increased scrutiny and legislative harm, Ten Oaks leads with joy and thanks. They remind their supporters that the work is worth doing. That their love has grown into something real and powerful. And that this isn’t just a moment — it’s a movement.
And here’s what we all need to take from this:
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A well-timed thank you is a campaign.
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Gratitude sustains movements.
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And in challenging times, affirming your supporters with warmth and specificity matters more than ever.
My only quibble? I would have included a donate button.
Whether you’re running a youth program, a food pantry, or an animal shelter — let your donors know exactly what their love has grown. Because yes, political winds shift. But gratitude builds roots that hold.
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